Author of Win Your Breakup, Natasha Adamo


I am the #1 bestselling author of Win Your Breakup: How To Be The One That Got Away. Along with coaching clients around the world and doing in-person events, I write relationship, self-help, and life advice here on my blog and have created a community with courses, live Q&As and more on my app.

My life’s mission is to get you to become attracted to what’s good for you instead of what triggers you into always trying to be “good enough.” I want to help you stop caring about what people think and start asking yourself what YOU think.

This isn’t about settling. It’s about upgrading and getting to experience a level of happiness and emotional freedom that most can only dream of.

I write and speak from the perspective of a straight woman (me). I cannot authentically write from any perspective or experience other than my own. However, I am honored to have coached thousands of people around the world and to have many readers from the LGBTQ Community. Everyone struggles with the same confusion, pain, and toxicity – it’s just different body parts and dynamics. The common denominators are always the same, and our pain is what connects us all.

Choosing to give that pain a purpose is what makes us family.

Although I write from the perspective of a straight woman, what I write about does not discriminate against gender, orientation, age, or stage in life. I do not, in any way, want to exclude anyone.

Additionally, I have a huge problem with and no respect for people who engage in male-bashing. Men are NOT the problem. Toxicity is the problem, self-hatred is the problem, and unhealed trauma is the problem – not men. I have many male clients and readers all around the world.

“Self-love is not about only doing what makes you happy. It’s walking away from what you want more than anything because you know you deserve better.” - Natasha Adamo


Turning Heartbreak into A Launching Pad

Stay on Your White Horse: Natasha Adamo

I’ve learned that when you allow the painful experiences in your past to entitle you, it becomes impossible for those experiences to educate you. I couldn’t create profound change in my life until I was willing to step out of a victim mentality and into a space of survivorship.

Ties were cut with everything that was not serving me. I finally had the space to start giving myself the acceptance, kindness, compassion, forgiveness, and unconditional love that I had been outsourcing my entire life.

I began looking at my past with compassion instead of shame. Little by little, I started to treat myself better. And subsequently, my tolerance for anyone treating me any worse than I was already treating myself became nonexistent. I stopped looking for others to see in me what I could not see in myself.

My goal is to help you do the same. 

My education has not come from a classroom, a certification program, or a license of any kind. It has come from my own life experiences; it has come from surviving my childhood, myself, other people, and relationships that I sabotaged, along with the ones that left me for dead.

I have been in your shoes. I have gone through loss, rejection, failure, and breakups that have left me suicidal. I felt like I had no choice but to abandon my dignity, moral code, and intuition – just so I could get more time with an ex who had no problem wasting mine.

I know what it’s like to feel completely defeated and emotionally knocked down.

I know what it’s like to feel alone around family members, friends, and in a crowd.

I also know what it’s like to finally be able to self-reflect. To experience the kind of freedom and satisfaction of getting up off the ground in a way no one ever thought I could.

Now, it’s your turn.


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